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Hey there :) I'm BandGuard1018.

Name is self explanatory i guess. I thought it was about time to update this description. If you've been following me for a while you already know that i will post just about anything that i like, or love.

Im a college student trying to find himself, and get comfortable with it. I have big dreams and i plan to make all of them happen so get ready world... here i come :)

Day12…Casual Sex —

I just wish that someone would explain to me this concept of sleeping together, but not wanting a relationship…. Like it makes absolutely NOOOO SENSE AT ALL… I hate the fact that in order to relate to someone you have to have sex to do it. Why can’t i spend the evening getting to know you. Getting to know your about your family, your friends, your hobbies and dislikes. I don’t want to have sex with you the first night and then get to know you later, as you’re still screwing around with other people and then you decide you want to date me…. ITS DISGUSTING. And i guess it says something about character as well…. maybe i need to start looking at other people to talk to in that manner. i just don’t understand how this whole, casual sex thing came to be. The whole purpose of sex was to feel thee STRONGEST bond with someone that you truly care about… and now the whole reason behind it has been perverted. And i hate that….. just thinking out loud. And if you’re offended that i’m calling out this whole casual sex situation, sorry i’m not sorry. I’ve had my share…. and this is my personal opinion of it. I mean honestly is that all that people want these days, cause if so then i’m destined to be alone, because i want more….